The Alexander Technique
I feel taller! 🔆 My shoulders feel looser! 🔆. My knee stopped hurting!
My back feels better! 🔆 It's easier to breathe! 🔆 I feel so calm!
These are the types of things that students say during their Alexander Technique lessons.
You have a natural support system within you, a system that allows for an upright, expansive, lively presence. Whether you are walking in the woods, washing the dishes, talking with a friend, or playing the violin, you have an inherent ability to move freely, think clearly, and enjoy the moment. Yet, due to unhelpful habits and learning gaps, you may unknowingly interfere with your innate freedom, ease, and expressiveness.
The Alexander Technique is a practical self-help method for learning to move with more poise, presence, and power. It offers a way to make friends with gravity so that you develop a more balanced, comfortable, supportive posture.
Most students initially seek help for physical issues, including improved posture or to rebalance muscular tension in their backs, necks, shoulders, or elsewhere. Performers, such as actors, musicians, athletes, and professional speakers also study to improve their craft or to relieve performance anxiety. Whatever the initial reason for lessons, students discover benefits that reach beyond their original expectations. Because of the mind-body connection, physical changes simultaneously create change on other levels--mental, emotional, social, and spiritual.
More awareness gives you more choice.--more choice in how you respond to the stresses of life, more choice in how you move and think, more choice in how you want to be in the world.
Mindfulness.
The quality of your attention is equal to the quality of your life.
--Lilly Sutton
Mindfulness is a practice for noticing without judging, and without getting lost in your thoughts. It’s not about pushing your thoughts away or taking a break from reality—It’s about developing a different relationship to your thoughts and perceptions.
Mindfulness expands your field of attention so that you are simultaneously present for others, and for yourself. Your attention can be purposeful and focused, yet also wide and expansive. In a conversation, you can notice your own thoughts and still attend to the person you're with. At the computer, you can complete your work while you also breathe freely and easily.
Practicing mindfulness in silence with your eyes closed can be valuable, but our practice teaches mindfulness in everyday life—while working at your computer, talking with a friend, or going on a walk.
Mindfulness can help you…
- Be present rather than preoccupied with worry and judgment
- Be productive rather than busy and overwhelmed
- Enjoy the simple pleasures of life
- Release excess muscle tension
- Feel calmer, less stressed
Guided Meditation
Acceptance invites change.
Judgement keeps you stuck.
--Lilly Sutton
Guided meditation is a powerful tool for de-stressing. Clients have said that helps them feel simultaneously relaxed and energized, light and grounded, calm and alert. It helps you feel better right away, and it also has benefits that last beyond the session.
Guided meditation offers a structured practice for building body awareness. Why do we use the phrases, “Be sensible!”, “Come to your senses!”, or “That doesn’t make sense!”? Your bodily senses are a crucial aspect of your intelligence. You can use your bodily signals to help you care for yourself on every level. Your dashboard tells you when your car needs gas; Your body language tells you when it’s time to care for yourself and lower your stress-o-meter.
Guided Meditation can help you...
- Feel profoundly peaceful, centered, and comfortable
- Release the negative effects of stress
- Relieve anxiety so that you can think more clearly
- Develop confidence in your ability to handle situations and care for yourself
- Strengthen your coping skills so that you don’t get stressed as quickly or easily
Mind-Body Connection
Any problem is an invitation to learn. --Lilly Sutton
Your body and your mind aren't separate; they are one. Because of this unity, you can help your body through your own thinking--your beliefs, your intentions, and your expectations. It’s known as the placebo effect, and pharmaceutical companies have scientifically proven it many thousands of times. The effect is so well-established that drug trials must factor it out of their results and show that the drug being tested is more effective than the person's belief that the drug may help them. (Often, it's very close.)
Have you heard of the "nocebo effect?" It offers persuasive evidence for the power of your mind-body connection. In pharmaceutic trials of potential cancer-fighting drugs, some of the control group subjects (the subjects who do not receive the medication but don’t know if they’re receiving it or not), still suffer the side effects of the medication. Some subjects' hair falls out, not from the medication, but just from believing that they might lose their hair.
An acupuncturist friend told me about her patient who received dramatic relief from chronic back pain. He happily reported these good results to his physician, who said, Oh, acupuncture! That's just the placebo effect! The quick-witted patient replied to his doctor, Well, her placebo's better than your placebo!
Some people already have a naturally powerful placebo response and for others the response is not as pronounced. Wouldn't it be to your advantage to boost the placebo effect, to strengthen your own ability for self-healing?
Any condition that is affected by stress can potentially be helped by learning to use the power of your mind.
Easy Breathing
Have you ever noticed how freely a baby breathes?
Do you often feel like you’re not getting a full breath?
Did you know that your breath is what powers your voice?
Years ago, at the hospital where I worked, I taught deep breathing. It was (and still is) the most well-known technique available. While deep breathing can be of some help, I now teach a more effective breathing method--a method that creates a fuller, easier inhale and a fuller, more satisfying exhale.
Easy Breathing helps to release the stress response. Singers, athletes, musicians, and public speakers find that it enhances their performance. Clients often say that it helps them to think more clearly and be more productive. Besides that, Easy Breathing feels terrific! After a breathing lesson, clients often describe having an expansive feeling, a sense of spaciousness and connection. One student described it as a "natural high."
You can use Easy Breathing to:
- Release shoulder, neck, and abdominal tension
- Relieve stress, tension, and anxiety
- Get to sleep more easily and rest more deeply
- Breathe more freely, with less effort
- Improve your vocal volume and resonance
Deep Listening
Do you have someone who truly listens to you?
Can you remember the last time you felt heard and understood?
Would you like to be better at listening to others, and to yourself?
I put this photo of Mazzy Grace because dogs are known for listening and she has especially big, beautiful ears. But listening is more than just hearing words. True listening comes from a deeper place. Real listening requires a willingness to put aside preconceptions and judgments so that you can hear what's underneath the words, receive the person behind the words.
Listening is at the heart of everything I do. When it's helpful, I do give practical guidance, but rather than advising you on what to do or what to believe, I aim to help you listen to your own guidance, to develop trust in yourself, and gain confidence in your own judgement.
Being heard, seen, and welcomed as you are makes a profound, and even life-changing. difference. Feeling understood and accepted as you are can be a turning point for becoming more of who you want to be.